In this “In Conversation with” episode, Kaye shares how lovely it is to do something without having anything on it, letting go of the experience as soon as it’s over instead of bringing it with you through time. She shares an anecdote of how she had an argument with her husband but very quickly saw the impersonal nature of it, finding herself getting neutral very quickly. That’s why she finds the understanding of the Three Principles so useful, she can let go of the argument in an instant instead of dragging it around with her, trying to get to the source of it and talking to other people about it, letting it affect her day.
“When we see where our performance comes from we can let go of personal preferences and just enjoy the experience.”
Denise starts off this Nine Live episode exploring “Preferences”, observing how on some days she can have lots of thinking around how her day should pan out, how her children should behave, how the sessions with her clients should go, looking at her own preferences around her looks. She is pondering what life would be like without those preferences, asking herself what would happen if they were to drop away.
“There is a space before preferences which is so pure, so beautiful, it’s pure consciousness. That place of innocence.”